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Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Civility Matters

Is it just me or is bad behavior the "new normal?"  Civility, derived from the Old French and Latin term for "good citizen," is more than polite courtesies.  Civility allows us to live respectfully in communities by means of treating others with respect, compassion, and kindness.  By doing so, we  can MAKE A DIFFERENCE in the lives of many.

Here are a few tools to use (I ran across these in a recent  magazine article):

1.  Regardless of your age, make a habit of practicing kindness, generosity and gratitude.  Research shows that people who regularly practice these acts live longer, healthier, and happier lives.

2.  Nurture your social relationships; balancing Internet contact with phone calls and face-to-face visits, which are more personal forms of communication.

3.  Take advantage of "teachable moments" with your children, grandchildren, nieces and nephews.  We are no longer teaching our kids manners--or respect and empathy for others. 

Help reverse the trend of bad behavior.  Together, we can MAKE A DIFFERENCE!